It was a daunting task, far too intimidating to be faced alone. So, on Sunday, I gathered up my sister Mary and friend Carolyn to attempt a feat which could range anywhere from straightforward to impossible…
…I went dress-shopping.
I tried on eight dresses, and was able to narrow it down to a few main prospects within moments. Then, after a conference with the girls over cheesecake, plus some input from the bride-to-be and my husband, I placed an order.
Before I share the winner of this particular challenge – a surprisingly less-painful-than-expected ordeal, in which my abdominal scars and wounds rarely were at issue – I thought I’d show all of the contenders, photographed by Carolyn to assist in the decision-making process. You tell me, which one do you think I chose? What the hell, I haven’t hosted a blog contest in a while, let’s make it a giveaway: of those who guess correctly, I’ll randomly select one to win a hand-knitted hat of your choosing.
As a hint, the wedding is an afternoon, garden affair, and the final selection came in a lovely cornflower blue. My goal was to find something fun and dressy without being cutesy or stuffy. And I’ll be shopping, very soon, for shoes… I’m thinking strappy silver sandals, with a low heel. And I promise to have better posture at the wedding itself; I was wearing terribly uncomfortable loaner shoes and got tireder and tireder as the afternoon progressed.
OK. Without further ado, the contestants are…
1 & 2
So, whaddaya think? Which is the best?
So many cute choices, but I’m guessing you picked the second one down on the left.
By: mamatoboys on August 3, 2010
at 9:56 pm
You look awesome in every single one of them! But, you said “afternoon garden” which takes the long ones out, I think.
I *think* it’s either the black or the red one, in cornflower blue (my favorite Crayola crayon from the past, btw). I’m projecting b/c those would be the two I’d choose, but I have no boobs, so my logic is a bit flawed. I’m going to say the “black” one. I love the neckline to death, though honestly, any of those dresses will look fabulous.
By: Fairly Odd Mother on August 3, 2010
at 9:56 pm
Hmmmm … wondering if your facial expressions in the photos are another clue? 🙂 You don’t seem overly thrilled with the aqua dress (#7). Gotta ponder this …
By: LeeAnne on August 3, 2010
at 9:56 pm
I like 1, 3, 6 and 7 the best. But mostly 3!
By: kristin/ kwr221 on August 3, 2010
at 9:57 pm
I could be swayed by the colors, though.
By: kristin/ kwr221 on August 3, 2010
at 9:57 pm
I like dress 6 and 7 but you look beautiful in them all. hope you had fun shopping and a blast at the wedding.
For the purpose of the contest I pick dress #6
By: Kirsta on August 3, 2010
at 10:00 pm
Hey… I screwed up the numbering on this post, so can you let me know if you still mean the same numbers now that I’ve clarified? (Some people used numbering based on the photos’ position on the page, other people used the file name of the dresses… stupid of me, would have been so easy to set it up better. Ah, well, one more thing to blame on Mommy-Brain…)
Thanks, Kate
By: Kate on August 4, 2010
at 9:53 am
I used the pic numbers , I pick The new # 3
By: Kirsta on August 4, 2010
at 3:47 pm
I think I vote for dress1. But basically because that’s the one I think I’d be most comfortable in.
By: Kristie on August 3, 2010
at 10:00 pm
I really love dress #1, so I’m going with that one. Because really, I have no idea! 🙂 It’s longish (can’t totally see the bottom) but seems to be of a flouncy sort of material, so I think it would work for a daytime garden wedding. And it looks super comfy!
They all look great, and it’s nice to get to see several photos of you!
I was moh in an old friend’s wedding this past January – her only attendant – and I got to choose my dress too. That rocked … a definite step up from being forced to pay hundreds of dollars for dresses I didn’t even like. Yay to Gretchen for giving you this freedom!
By: LeeAnne on August 3, 2010
at 10:04 pm
My favorite is the very first one.
By: Magi on August 3, 2010
at 10:04 pm
Hmmm. This is hard!
I thought 1, 2 and 3 were a bit formal for what you seemed to want for a garden wedding, though I especially liked the way 1 and 3 looked on you! A lot. A lot alot.
I think 5 looked fab on you, too, and is a classic cut and style, but that seemed to work against the fun requirement.
I wasn’t as fond of 7 or 8.
So that leaves 4 and 6. Six has the fun chiffon skirt you were looking for, but four is just really adorable, and would look spectacular in the cornflower blue with silver shoes. I do worry that you might think it too cutesy, though.
So, my vote is for number 4. Fun and flirty and dressy.
Can’t wait to see what you decided, and to see you all gussied up in comfortable shoes and big hair!
By: BeThisWay on August 3, 2010
at 10:04 pm
Dress 5 (as titled, I’m not sure it’s #5 on the page) is the most sophisticated and flattering. It would be lovely in blue, and with beautiful shoes and a bouquet, it will be stunning!
By: lc on August 3, 2010
at 10:05 pm
I really like 3 and 1.
By: Connie on August 3, 2010
at 10:09 pm
I am not a fan of strapless but I *love* that one on you. it’s a very flattering cut and length on you
By: Liz on August 3, 2010
at 10:11 pm
I know you ordered number 3 in the color of your choice, because you look like one hot mama, rocking the strapless top, and the cute short flirty skirt…cleavage looking good, waist nice and small, who would have guessed all the mayhem your poor tummy has been through! What did I win??? hehe
By: Kelly Johnston on August 3, 2010
at 10:14 pm
Brown one…. 2nd one down on the right. Simple but lovely.
By: Danielle on August 3, 2010
at 10:14 pm
I like the fourth one (brown) or the sixth. but that one is a bit too long for a garden wedding in my mind.
Now, the really important question, what shawl are you going to make to go with it???? 🙂
By: AKKnitter on August 3, 2010
at 10:17 pm
I’m gonna go with the light green (yellow?) strapless short one. It’s so flattering on you and very cute and fun.
By: Jamie on August 3, 2010
at 10:18 pm
You look stunning in the strapless (titled dress6) and the next one (dress5)
strapless dress6 is fun, fresh, flirty
dress5 is classic, audrey hepburnish
hmmm… I’m going dress6
By: CBear on August 3, 2010
at 10:22 pm
The last one. That neckline looks great on you.
By: Beverly on August 3, 2010
at 10:28 pm
I would pick the brown one-#4 I guess
By: Laura on August 3, 2010
at 10:30 pm
I am guessing the strapless green one, first in the second row.
By: Diane on August 3, 2010
at 10:32 pm
Dress1 or Dress6. Very pretty. I’m not digging any of the halter tops, for some reason.
By: Lisa on August 3, 2010
at 10:44 pm
I am guessing dress6 in which you look stunning!
By: Vanessa on August 3, 2010
at 10:55 pm
6 or 3, in that order. You look amazing in all of them, but 6 really did it for me.
By: wordnerd on August 3, 2010
at 10:59 pm
Dress 1 is totally va-va-voom on you 🙂
By: MFA Mama on August 4, 2010
at 12:40 am
I admit to cheating and heading on over to the David’s Bridal site to see if my favourites came in cornflower…
You look stunning in so many of these! So elegant in the long black halter, but that’s not summer garden. For me I’d choose the brown satin one, and you looked so classic in that too, but it’s not as fun as the strapless with the pailletes, so that’s what I think you went with. You did say fun in the hints. I hope you feel as great as you look in it!
By: florapie on August 4, 2010
at 2:26 am
I like number, er, 4? The brown one. Actually the colour looks pretty good on you, but it’s not exactly summer-wedding cheery.
Courtney R
By: Hrist on August 4, 2010
at 3:00 am
Lots of great choices! I’m going to say dress 6.
By: Missy on August 4, 2010
at 7:14 am
the short green one is really cute.
By: kathy on August 4, 2010
at 9:03 am
My fave is the first pic in the second row! Short and strapless.
By: Sarahviz on August 4, 2010
at 9:30 am
Nimber 4 for sure.
By: Hokgardner on August 4, 2010
at 9:43 am
I LOVE #3 on you. You look so beautiful.
By: Destiny on August 4, 2010
at 10:01 am
Wordnerd is right!
By: kristin on August 4, 2010
at 10:08 am
The strapless one. And you look stunning in all of them.
By: jmlc on August 4, 2010
at 12:21 pm
three
By: Becca on August 4, 2010
at 1:22 pm
hmmm… i’m thorn between #3 and 4, you have lots of great choices!
By: Alpaquita on August 4, 2010
at 8:37 pm
Yup – I still really like 3 & 4! You look fab in both
By: Melissa M on August 4, 2010
at 8:45 pm
I pick 3 🙂
By: tina on August 4, 2010
at 11:17 pm
Two, THREE, or four are my favourites! You look gorgeous, regardless! ❤
By: bedandbreakast on August 4, 2010
at 11:21 pm
Fine – three!
By: bedandbreakast on August 4, 2010
at 11:22 pm
OK, wait, you changed the numbers. I need to clarify my vote, since when I said #1, I was going by the photo’s name in Flickr. So I’m still voting for the same dress, but in the photos above, it’s listed as #8. Make sense?
Can’t wait to see which one you chose! Now I’m off to read other people’s guesses. What fun!
By: LeeAnne on August 4, 2010
at 11:27 pm
THREE. Got that? THREE.
By: wordnerd on August 4, 2010
at 11:45 pm
I like 3 and 4 the best. They’re both very flattering styles on you, but 3 has a sort of throwback kind of feel to it, while 4 is more modern and classic looking at the same time.
By: poops on August 5, 2010
at 12:00 am
Well fine – if I have to pick just one I want to say 3, but my gut says you chose 4, so my guess is 4 (and no Gretchen didn’t give me any hints)
By: Melissa M on August 5, 2010
at 12:50 am
My vote is for the dress that is now labeled as 3. 🙂
By: Missy on August 5, 2010
at 7:08 am
I used the pic numbers, so my vote for dress6 is actually # 3 with the new numbers.
By: Vanessa on August 5, 2010
at 7:52 am
OK, it’s Thursday morning … readers want answers! 🙂
By: LeeAnne on August 5, 2010
at 10:06 am
#3 Definitely.
By: iwillnoteatthedarkness on August 5, 2010
at 11:10 am
THREE!!!!
(second down on the left)
Gorgeous!!!!!
Chin up, shoulders back, exude that confidence that is the fabulousness that you are.
By: Grace on August 5, 2010
at 1:29 pm
Am I too late? I like 3 the best, you look so cute in it!
By: Cordelia on August 5, 2010
at 2:27 pm